Do you want to stop smoking badly enough to try? If you do, start now. Don't wait for what happened to my friend Waleed.
Waleed brimmed with funny stories, but our last meeting was a sad one. He was still telling his stories and he was surrounded, as usual, by a gathering of laughing girls. Ominously, however, a wire ran out of his shirt-front to what looked like a 1940s radio.
He caught my glance. "Heart monitor," he said. Then he pointed to a cylinder next to his chair. "I need oxygen too. Cigarettes, you know. They've finally got me."
At the time, I was smoking 80 a day - four packets - and had an unrelenting cough. My home leave was over. Next day I was off again to my job in the Persian Gulf.
After visiting Waleed I found it harder to breathe. Call it 'funk' and I'll agree with you.
I chewed gum, which I hate, on the flight. At the other end, I stumbled into the heavy Gulf heat, exhausted. Thoughts of self-hypnotism--about which I knew nothing--ran through my head.
Then I remembered how, as a child, I would wake myself ahead of some holiday trip that required early rising. I would bang my head on the pillow six times before sleeping and whisper: "Wake at six!" It always worked.
I didn't know how many bangs I needed for a "Quit smoking" order, so I used the six o'clock formula and whispered: "Don't smoke."
My cigarette consumption fell, but I was still smoking three months later when I heard Waleed had died. A darkness, like that of a sudden sandstorm at mid-day, seemed to fall on me.
Then, at a New Year's Eve dinner, I overheard a woman across the table tell her neighbour: "He stopped my fiancé smoking?" I soon had the story from her and the address of the person - a Chinese doctor - who had worked this miracle.
"I can't help you unless you really want to quit smoking," Dr Yeah said when we met.
I assured him I did and he twiddled an acupuncture needle in the lobe of my left ear and stuck a tiny tablet into the top of my right ear with a piece of sticking-plaster. "Keep that there and come tomorrow," he said.
He repeated the treatment over the next five days, alternating needle and tablet between ears. I was still smoking on the fifth day, when he said: "This is our last session."
At home again, disgruntled and sorry for myself, I sat in the garden smoking. Then, suddenly, I realised I was mindlessly smoking one cigarette over and over, taking a couple of puffs, stubbing it out, putting it in my pocket, taking it out and lighting up again.
"Disgusting!" I said aloud and ground it out.
That was 12 years ago. I haven't smoked since. I don't know why the treatment, which seemed laughable at the time, worked. But I don't understand why antibiotics kill germs, or why the sky is blue. I believe self-suggestion helped. I could at least tell Dr Yeah I truly wanted to stop smoking. I had, after all, been trying to stop and I had got some results.
Today, I am not tempted when others around me smoke. I move away. But I don't want to analyse my born-again non-smoking too piercingly in case I'm tempted to start smoking again.
Want to quit smoking? Start with pillow-talk whispers and carry on with acupuncture.
© Copyright Yasseen Yasseen
Yasseen Yasseen is the author of a coming-of-age book called Emigrating Home, which was sparked by his being called into both the British and Egyptian armies when the two countries were in conflict. A dual national, how could he serve in either since he loved both? This is the story of his journey from his birthplace, what was then the British colony of Jamaica, to school in Britain, to his father's country, Egypt. Told in fiction form, the tale ends with Yasseen in Cairo trying to get a grip on things that seemed to spin out of control because, while he spoke no Arabic, he looked like a national and nobody took him for a tourist.
Yasseen has spent his working life in radio, TV and newspaper journalism, in the Middle East -- in Egypt, Oman and Dubai.
He is currently working for a newspaper and is trying to find time to write a novel and a sequel to Emigrating Home.
You can visit his website at: http://www.emigratinghome.com/


Substance P is a key neurotransmitter required to produce moderate... Read More
Vegan, or vegetarian, organic fills and batting, are natural materials... Read More
Shea butter, also referred to as karite, which means "life"... Read More
You're familiar with the phrase, "there's the rub," meaning "there... Read More
Some people say that prevention is better than cure. That... Read More
Frank's 85 year-old father was in advanced stages of Parkinson's.Confined... Read More
REIKI is a form of natural healing through direct application... Read More
Here's a quick question: You've got a bad cold. Do... Read More
What's the difference between science and magic? It's our understanding... Read More
Do you know why the rich and famous spend thousands... Read More
Tired of costly medications, prescriptions and time lost for doctor's... Read More
I would like to report some anecdotal research findings that... Read More
In my workshops we use energy techniques that involve tapping... Read More
But Not Nearly Often EnoughIf you're skeptical about your ability... Read More
Organic fresh made juices have cleansing and laxative action, which... Read More
Although the word aromatherapy has not been around forever, the... Read More
No patience for bleaching? There may be another way to... Read More
The major difference between alternative medicine, or what I'll call... Read More
Massage therapy is as ancient as noodles. People have been... Read More
A vast array of after-market insoles has been merchandised through... Read More
a) WHERE DO ESSENTIAL OILS COME FROM ? - Essential... Read More
I'm sure you know what it's like to be sick.... Read More
Introduction to A Healing Crisis An increasing number of people... Read More
The terms alternative medicine and complementary medicine are often wrongly... Read More
Light plays a crucial role in the synchronisation of your... Read More
Pendulum Dowsing is a very fun and simple way to... Read More
Bee's and Bee NutritionWhat is the buzz about bee Nutrition?... Read More
For hundreds of years, the yogi's have been known to... Read More
Here are two constipation remedies that you can use for... Read More
Are you tired of being self-conscious about your hands and... Read More
Aging occurs due to the growth of the tissues and... Read More
If you experience a sharp pain in your heel at... Read More
Millions of people suffer from back pain unnecessarily when there... Read More
a) WHERE DO ESSENTIAL OILS COME FROM ? - Essential... Read More
Here are some more constipation remedies using fruits. Try to... Read More
We all know the nasty sensation of coming down with... Read More
Home Remedies - Facts or Quacks?That's what I recently asked... Read More
You're familiar with the phrase, "there's the rub," meaning "there... Read More
If you're in chronic pain, you probably want 7 things.... Read More
Holistic living is simply living your life with all aspects... Read More
Menstruating or pregnant women should not use Aloe Vera, in... Read More
Now is an incredible time to be on Earth. All... Read More
The organic movement, which started with organic food, is moving... Read More
Pain behind the knee is something many of us have... Read More
Cayenne is a constipation home remedy that is effective in... Read More
Living in a hectic urban landscape, do you look forward... Read More
Having had the rare, first-hand opportunity to observe cold laser... Read More
We've all seen them, right? The stage hypnotist, who makes... Read More
Chronic constipation can be hard to stop or elimination, since... Read More
What is Shiatsu? Shiatsu, literally means: Shi = 'finger,' Atsu... Read More
Answering Service ResourceAnswering Service Resource |