How to Help Your Children Learn

We all want the very best for our children and that includes giving them the best possible start to their education. There is a great deal you, as a parent, can do to achieve this. Your priority should be to create an environment that is safe, loving and stimulating.

CHILDREN LEARN THROUGH ALL THEIR SENSES

As we get older, we tend to rely on our sense of sight, and maybe hearing, to learn. We read, we observe and we listen. Children touch, taste, smell, look and then listen.

It's quite pointless to expect toddlers to learn by listening to you -- they're not being naughty when they gaze at you with those big eyes as you explain that it's wrong to spray your expensive perfume all over the bath (you spray the bath when you clean it, they're copying your actions -- they just haven't refined all the details yet).

The best way to teach your children about their world is the most difficult for you. It involves letting them try to do things for themselves (always under your supervision, of course).

When you're rushing to get to work, the temptation is to dress your toddlers, make the beds, tidy the room, pack the bags etc, while they remain passive recipients or observers. It takes much longer if you allow your toddlers to decide what they want to wear, to dress themselves, to begin making their beds and to pack their own bags. But if you deny them the opportunity to learn these things now, when they want to, you really have no-one to blame when they don't know how to look after themselves later (and when they don't want to do these things for themselves).

CHILDREN LEARN BY DOING

Children learn by doing - it bears repeating.

Children are also experts at the scientific method -- they observe their environment; they formulate hypotheses and they test these by carrying out experiments.

The toddler throwing objects from a high chair isn't doing it out of malice, to make you prematurely grey! It's part of learning what happens if you drop different sized objects from a height; what happens if you put a bit of force behind the objects and throw them; what happens if you tip that plate of squishy cereal upside down; what happens to the milk if you pour it into the vegetables ...

When your children become astrophysicists, they'll thank you for letting them conduct their early experiments in such a positive environment!

FOSTERING LEARNING

It's not desirable to just let your children do whatever they want to do -- you need to provide firm guidelines from an early age about what is acceptable and what isn't. By setting these boundaries, and being consistent with them, you'll give your children a secure environment in which to carry out their experiments.

Jennifer Stewart has a degree in English and History and taught senior High School for over twenty years. During that time, she was Head of Department, responsible for devising and implementing teaching programs, and for supervising young teachers. After leaving full-time teaching, she wrote (and now markets) writing courses for students and adults who want to improve their writing skills. Visit her website at http://www.write101.com

Jennifer also offers professional writing services - copy writing, editing and proof reading for your web pages, press releases, technical booklets, newsletters, business proposals, reports or any other writing projects.

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Bring On The Books For A Brainy Baby
Scoop.co.nz (press release), New Zealand - Oct 9, 2008
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Yeovil Express, UK - 12 hours ago
Babies need a variety of foods from different food groups to ensure they get all the nutrients they need. Follow-on milks contain higher levels of iron and ...

Woolworths launches baby & toddler world
Supermarket Online, South Africa - Oct 8, 2008
... through our regular email newsletters, will provide useful information on areas from feeding plans and recipe ideas for babies and toddlers to advice on ...

March of Dimes focuses on aiding premature babies
Rockford Register Star, IL - Oct 10, 2008
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A toddler's taste of free will
Irish Times, Ireland - Oct 6, 2008
When babies are small infants, up to the age of at least 12 months and often longer, they believe themselves to be indivisible from their primary carer. ...

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Safety tips for parents of babies and toddlers to prevent child ...
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Which presidential candidate would you let hold your baby?
Examiner.com - Oct 8, 2008
by Darby Herrington, Baby and Toddler Examiner With all of the recent mud-slinging in the presidential race, it is no surprise that each candidate seizes ...

Wakefield toddler nearly died seven times
Yorkshire Evening Post, UK - Oct 10, 2008
... table SEVEN times after he was diagnosed with Tetralogy of Fallot, a condition comprising four heart abnormalities which affects one in 1000 babies. ...

Carrick Library has programs for parents and babies
South Pittsburgh Reporter, PA - Oct 7, 2008
The time has come for Toddler Time where parents and their toddlers can sing, shake, wiggle and dance together while learning through songs and activities. ...

Rich, little babies
New Straits Times, Malaysia - Oct 5, 2008
And with this growing baby focus, the industry selling products for infants and toddlers in America is now worth a whopping US$7 billion (RM24.15 billion). ...
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