Do You Know Someone Whos Dying?

Too many people are dying alone?

The dying are one of society's most unrecognized and under-served groups. As individuals near the end of life they are often ignored, discounted, misunderstood and forgotten.

We are doing something about it?

The Twilight Brigade/Compassion in Action is a national 501c(3) nonprofit organization committed to raising society's consciousness about the needs of the dying through community and professional education, advocacy, and service to the terminally ill and their loved ones so that no one need die alone.

The Twilight Brigade is a non-profit national association of end-of-life care volunteers. It was founded in 1997 in Los Angeles, and today has over 6,000 members nationwide. The Twilight Brigade does not provide health care or direct hospice services, though it embraces the hospice approach to end-of-life care. The Association provides education, training, and volunteers to assist the terminally ill and those closest to them.

Weekend intensive workshops

The Twilight Brigade offers an intensive 20-hour workshop designed to teach people how to provide comfort and support to the dying and their family members. It is appropriate for lay volunteers, as well as medical and mental health professionals. Three vital areas of focus are:

- Learning what to do and how to be with the dying

- Addressing personal fears and unresolved issues that prevent people from serving

- Developing techniques for self-care and avoiding burnout in order to continue serving this very special population

The Connecticut Affiliate Chapter of The Twilight Brigade currently has initiatives underway to provide training and volunteers for hospice, convalescent homes, VA hospitals, and prisons. If you are interested in volunteering for this special and rewarding work please contact us:

Karin Nemri, Chapter Chairperson

Phone: 860-243-0869

or visit us at www.TwilightBrigadeCT.org

New England - New York Expansion

The Connecticut chapter is helping The Twilight Brigade expand into New York and New England. We are holding training events and helping to form new chapters in this area. If you are interested in holding a weekend intensive seminar or forming a chapter in your area please contact us.

For more information about The Twilight Brigade national organization visit www.TheTwilightBrigade.com

The author is a certified trainer for The Twilight Brigade. He is working with The Twilight Brigade to establish volunteer chapters in the Northeast, particularly in locations where there are VA hospitals.

In The News:


BBC News

At a time of shared grief, let's not hurt each other
Jerusalem Post, Israel - 4 hours ago
India and Israel are hurting over the loss of lives last week. Why hurt each other at this time of shared loss and grief? The writer is associate editor of ...
Video: NY Rabbi, Wife Among Dead in Mumbai Raid AssociatedPress
• Laguna Chabad members mourn loss Coastline Pilot
After Mumbai Attacks, Chabad Movement Grieves Around the World Forward
Lubavitch.com - Daytona Beach News-Journalall 2,618 news articles

Taking the time to remember
Petaluma Argus Courier, CA - 4 hours ago
Maddox added that Light up a Life can also be an incredibly healing time for those grieving loss. “The first birthday, anniversary or Christmas can be a ...

Highmark Caring Place Resources Help Children and Families Cope ...
MarketWatch - 5 hours ago
"Children don't just 'get over' grief. They need time to learn to cope with their loss and the many other changes that often occur." To cope with grief ...

Grieving for a pet
Lynchburg News and Advance, VA - 21 hours ago
Strong bonds develop between animals and humans, so it can be extremely difficult to cope with such a profound loss. People deal with grief in many ways. ...

Hernando, Pasco hospices offer tips on grief during holidays
Tampabay.com, FL - Dec 1, 2008
Losing a loved one is hard, and that loss can feel even greater during the holidays. Finch and Quinones recently spoke to the Times about grief and offered ...

Farragut students react to loss of fellow student in car crash
WVLT, TN - 2 hours ago
Knox county school officials say additional grief counselors were on hand today, and will continue to be on hand as long as the principal says they are ...
Farragut senior killed in car crash WBIR-TV
all 3 news articles

Season of joy and sorrow
Stamford Advocate, CT - 12 hours ago
... she is likely to feel a renewed sense of loss. She hoped to stave off the grief by surrounding herself at holiday celebrations with people who make her ...

Rabbit Hole: finding humor in grief
Argonaut, ID - 20 hours ago
“So, it deals with how you handle grief and loss in existing family ties and relationships. Each scene is a slice of life. It is not melodramatic. ...

Lost a loved one? How to deal with grief this holiday season
ABC15.com (KNXV-TV), AZ - 8 hours ago
Realizing in advance that the holidays will be different, that there will be feelings of sadness and loss as well as memories which may be happy, ...

Teen still grieving over loss of father
Savannah Morning News, GA - Nov 30, 2008
A. While four years of grieving for a lost father may seem beyond expectation, the death of a father during those precarious adolescent years often causes ...
grief loss - Google News

Grief & Loss - Healing Your Broken Heart

What is it about Grief & Loss that upsets us... Read More

Sympathy Flowers

Sending a floral tribute is a very appropriate way of... Read More

After Suicide: Returning to Life, Thanks to an Owl

Have you ever lost the ability to laugh? I did.When... Read More

A Critical Assessment of Euthanasia

The question of whether, say, a man should have the... Read More

When Change Comes (Dealing With Grief and Loss)

Needless to say, the time after loss is volatile and... Read More

Terminal Illness- Death and Grief

No one likes to think about illness and death, when... Read More

Death, Close and Personal

I got an email recently from someone whose mother died.... Read More

The Twists and Turns of Life

When I was born in 1962 I thought life was... Read More

New Tears [about Grievng--with commentary]

New Tears [about Grieving]If it rains or shinesLittle does it... Read More

You Can Help A Grieving Heart

Oh, we can talk about the best cold medications and... Read More

Dying? Not Me! Why You Should Plan for Transition

Remember the Eulogy projects we had to write back in... Read More

Suicide Survivor

Suicide is a nightmare for survivors of loved ones. Death... Read More

Present Moment Awareness: Lessons From My Dog

I've always waited for the perfect moment to be happy:... Read More

Suicide in the Church, Part 3

Suicide strikes...AGAIN!This may wind up being the most important article... Read More

Traumas as Social Interactions

("He" in this text - to mean "He" or "She").We... Read More

In the Blink of an Eye

Today's Quote: "My house is burned down, but I can... Read More

The Walking Wounded

When my phone rang the other day, it was a... Read More

You Have to Show Up: On Small Miracles (Okay, maybe not so small)

I hadn't intended to go to my cousin's funeral.That sounds... Read More

Suicide - An Eternal Pain

Suicide is the one form of death that has quite... Read More

Who has the Worst Pain

During the 28 years I have been interacting with bereaved... Read More

Coping with Grief - Its Called Living Through It

"Dad, I tried to wake Nana, I think she's dead."... Read More

How To Heal Your Heart

We all experience severe heart break at some time in... Read More

Grief Support: The Dos

Helpers often ask questions such as: "What should I do?... Read More

What this Rabbi Learned from Not being Re-hired

It's a familiar story, and I have been through it... Read More

Online Monument ? An Ever-lasting Tribute to Your Departed Loved Ones

Memories are never to be buried along with the loss... Read More