Pope John Paul II

WHAT I LEARNED FROM POPE JOHN PAUL II
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I am not a Catholic, but I felt a deep loss when Pope John Paul II took ill and then died. That's what happens to us with public people--we connect with them even if we didn't know them. Remember when JFK was shot? When Princess Di was killed? We invite these men and women into our hearts, we live through them, and when they die, we are affected. We embrace them, and they become part of our family. All you afternoon soap fans will know exactly what I am talking about!

I learned important life-lessons from Pope John Paul II, and I would like to share some of them with you. He was consistent in his message, never wavering and always being crystal clear about what the Church stood for. Perhaps that explains whay he was always surrounded by so many adoring young people. It was unusual, don't you think, for an 80-year-old man to be cheered and adored by teen-agers and Gen-Xers. But perhaps not so surprising--they knew "where he was coming from," and agree or disagree, the messenger could always be trusted. What an important messgage for us parents!

He was serene in his illness. He was never afraid, even when we all were. He knew he was dying, but it never "defined" him. He saw himself as a Pope who was ill, not a walking illness who happened to be the Pope! He did everyhing he could to retain the spark of holiness with which God created him, and at the end, we knew that the Universe had lost a Master of Holiness. Jewish Tradition might even call him a Tzaddik, a living breathing exemplar of a higher level spirit, an reminder of what you and I might become in our own lives

In The News:


Sydney Morning Herald

Bereaved face sad loss of grief support
Sydney Morning Herald, Australia - 19 hours ago
Enriched by Grief Support … Meredith Robinson, of Avalon, with a photo of her son Rex. He died at just 13 months after a bout of croup. ...

Children, families address grief at special summer camp
Newburyport Current, MA - 12 hours ago
It was through fun activities that these children were meant to learn how to work through issues of grief and loss. And throughout this fun, the reason for ...

ABC News

Bale assault linked to Ledger grief
TVNZ, New Zealand - Jul 23, 2008
Batman star Christian Bale's arrest over an alleged assault on his mother and sister may have been linked to a build-up of stress and grief over the loss of ...
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Maplewood Family Speaks On Loss Of Firefighter Son
MyFox Saint Louis, MO - Jul 22, 2008
The Hummert family talked with Fox 2 News about the unimaginable grief, and unexpected support they are now feeling. "It does bring some comfort. ...

Good grief, they spoke the word
Malta Independent Online, Malta - 1 hour ago
Once the fear of disapproval dissipated and being a “separat” or “separata” no longer made you a pariah or involved loss of status, people began to behave ...

Grandfather grief stricken over house fire deaths
ABC Online, Australia - Jul 22, 2008
Mr Cookson says he is devastated by the loss. "All I can say is I've lost two people who I very much love," he said. "Kerren was a woman who had suffered a ...

Readers respond to query about life after grief
The Gazette (Montreal), Canada - Jul 21, 2008
Three weeks ago this column posed the question "Is there life after grief?" and invited readers to share their ideas on coping with loss. ...

Summer camp helps kids deal with grief
WVLT, TN - 6 hours ago
Knoxville (WVLT) - If your child has lost a loved one, there's a camp they can attend this summer to help them open up about their loss. ...

Dr Rachel Andrew: Disbelief to denial – the long journey of two sons
Independent, UK - 10 hours ago
... of loss and even physical pain. The two sons may also have begun to feel responsible for their mother; that they must look after her and ease her grief. ...

Peek at the Week
Niles Herald Spectator, IL - 24 minutes ago
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