Happiness - Work Now or Later?

Long-term success and happiness follows hand-in-hand with strength of character.

As I mention in my book, Fast Track Your Success and Happiness, If we want to achieve a certain goal, we simply must do things that are less pleasant now than other alternatives have the potential to be. For example, if John wants to get a degree, he has to study for his exams, and not bliss out at the beach.

In order to become a person who manifests health, wealth, success, education etc in our lives, we have to want and be motivated to do those things that we don't always like to do. Once we become motivated because we have a specific purpose for doing those things, they become satisfying because we can see our lives moving in the right direction.

Life is certainly a journey. And it is not a journey where we board a train and know our destination in advance. We actually create our own destination by the steps we take today. So for me, becoming the kind of person who can amass wealth and then give it to charity, the kind of person who can love without expecting back, and the kind of person who can achieve the wildest goals, is well worth any unpleasantness I might have to experience now.

In having that mind set, the hard work it takes to achieve our goals doesn't seem unpleasant. Even if we never achieve the goals we set, we will be well on our way to developing an amazing strength of character.

(C) Copyright Petra Rankin 2005

Petra Rankin used powerful techniques to beat her own long-term depression. She is now dedicated to teaching others how to be happier and lead more successful lives. Her first book Fast Track Your Success and Happiness is due to be launched in September 2005 and is currently available for download as a free e-book instead of paying $19.95. Limited time only!

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Los Angeles Times

Happiness Pops Up with Poppy in “Happy-Go-Lucky”
eFluxMedia - 14 hours ago
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Daily Mail

Schools rated on pupils' happiness
Times Online, UK - 18 hours ago
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Schools to be judged on how they boost wellbeing guardian.co.uk
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KYMA

A Closet Full of Happiness
KYMA, AZ - 2 hours ago
Bringing smiles one toy at a time is the motto for Andrea's Closet, a non profit organization created to help ease the pain and suffering of children in the ...

'Music was a part of my health and happiness'
San Diego Union Tribune, United States - Oct 9, 2008
... that she realized that “music was a part of my health and happiness and sanity.” Her dad FedExed her a keyboard, and she began to focus her energies. ...

Examiner.com

19 ways to happiness, Tip #2
Examiner.com - 16 hours ago
Tip number two in our journey to happiness is "Pretend to be Happy". That is kind of the same as smiling when you don't feel like it, but I think it goes a ...

How to get happy? Thinking positive is a good start
The Star-Ledger - NJ.com, NJ - 13 hours ago
Although happiness is the most sought-after human emotion, it also is one of the least understood. For decades, researchers have studied negative emotions ...

Time test predicts happiness, health
Calgary Herald,  Canada - Oct 9, 2008
So how does one reset a psychological clock that isn't keeping up with physical health and mental happiness? "You've got to be conscientious of each action ...

The Imprimatur of Happiness
ChristianityToday.com, IL - 14 hours ago
Doesn't she blow the whistle just when the joy which is the Creator's gift offers us a happiness which is itself a certain foretaste of the divine? ...

The quest for happiness
mad.co.uk, UK - 15 hours ago
As budgets are tightened, employers are having to find ways of saving money while keeping their staff happy. Daney Parker reports on how employees can be ...

African Children's Choir spreads joy and happiness
St. Catharines Standard, Canada - 18 hours ago
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