Beginnings Arent As Complicated As They Seem

Beginnings are seldom as complicated as they seem. You know what I mean by "complicated ? the dates and the duties and the things-to-be-remembered, the stuff that piles onto your plate with a new project or obligation. Whether it's an urgent justice issue, a medical diagnosis forcing a changed lifestyle, or the work of starting a new job, the message is that a whole bunch of stuff HAS to be done, and you are the only one to do it, and do it NOW!

NOT.

What we're talking about is STUFF. Stuff doesn't care how you feel, how busy you already are, or what you personally think is most important. On the road of life, "stuff" is the tailgater, pushing you to hurry up, go faster, respond to its schedule at the expense of your own. In life, as on the highway, Gandhi, teaches the best way to deal with a tailgater ? slow down.

When "stuff" presses you to move faster, accomplish more, or stress yourself harder than feels comfortable to you ? STOP. Just for a moment ? or longer if need be. Stop and breathe. Reconnect with your personal values. Take time to remember why you got involved in this project in the first place.

Remember ? YOU, not "stuff" are in charge. At the end of the day, what matters is who you've BEEN, not what you've DONE.

That's where the old saying about "eating the elephant one bite at a time" comes in handy. At the beginning of any project, the question is not, "What has to be done?" but "What do I need to do right now, today?" Focus your energy, and the universe will come towards you. Taken one bite at a time, it's true: Beginnings are seldom as complicated as they seem.

© Maureen Killoran, 2004

Life coach and Unitarian minister Maureen Killoran, MA, DMin brings powerful intuitive gifts to create her positive, strengths-based coaching. Check out her popular teleclasses, e-books & free monthly e-zine. Complimentary 45-min. session. http://www.spiritquestcoaching.com

In The News:


New York Times

Lions use 2005 for motivation
The Daily Collegian Online, PA - 2 hours ago
By Andrew Wible When Joe Paterno addressed his team in the locker room following Saturday's 48-7 win at Wisconsin, he wanted to make sure his players were ...
Eric Knopsnyder | Lions must know their history The Tribune-Democrat
Lack of respect fuels Penn State Pittsburgh Tribune-Review
Penn State.....3 21 17 7 — 48 Carlisle Sentinel
Centre Daily Timesall 735 news articles

Plain 'ol victory tops payback for motivation in this game
San Diego Union Tribune, United States - 22 hours ago
The Chargers couldn't allow payback to become a priority last night. They couldn't afford to nurse ancient grudges or reopen old wounds. ...

City football title: Myth or motivation?
Waterbury Republican American, CT - 6 hours ago
BY ROGER CLEAVELAND REPUBLICAN-AMERICAN It may be mythical in nature, but don’t tell the Kennedy High football team that the city championship isn’t ...

Bleacher Report

Terrell Owens Needs a Jessica Simpson [for Motivation]
Bleacher Report, CA - 18 hours ago
Terrell Owens needs a Jessica Simpson to tell the world that he is going to kick butt and have a 100-yard game. Well, that was before Tony Romo’s pinky was ...

Wall Street Journal

Investigator Discounted Palins’ Fears as Motivation to Seek ...
New York Times, United States - Oct 11, 2008
The assertion about Ms. Palin’s motivations in trying to have Trooper Wooten dismissed were one conclusions in the report, which was the culmination of an ...
Video: Palin Disputes Finding She Abused Power AssociatedPress
Palin Abused Power in Trooper Case, Alaska Probe Says (Update1) Bloomberg
Palin denies she abused power CNN International
all 3,976 news articles

Press of Atlantic City

Parker hears, answers call for motivation
Press of Atlantic City, NJ - Oct 12, 2008
By DAVID WEINBERG Staff Writer, 609-272-7186 SAN FRANCISCO - Philadelphia Eagles defensive end Juqua Parker has always considered himself a good listener. ...

Having Friends Join Will Keep Motivation Going
Sarnia Observer,  Canada - 1 hour ago
one is busy, or distracted by morepleasurable pursuits. There are proven ways to beat this however. " Exercising with other people is a big motivator," says ...

Motivating Employees - A New Powerful Model
Graphic Online, Ghana - 47 minutes ago
Leaders attempting to boost motivation should take note. It is hard to argue with conventional wisdom backed by empirical evidence that a motivated ...

Washington Post

UNC: Searching For Motivation?
Bleacher Report, CA - Oct 12, 2008
Their motivation and drive satisfied, they were content, even if only subconsciously, with a Final Four berth. Now, an off-season later, the answers aren't ...
Defensive Notebook: UNC Week Blue and Gold Illustrated (subscription)
all 495 news articles

Gather.com

Motivation Quote - Opinions
Gather.com, MA - 12 hours ago
Why prove to a man he is wrong? Is that going to make him like you? Why not let him save face? He didn't ask for your opinion. He didn't want it. ...
motivation - Google News

The Top Ten Strategies to Employ When You Feel Like Quitting

Ever feel like quitting? "Are you kidding?" you ask, "A... Read More

Make Motivation Stick

Motivation is the elusive elixir. Not only does it help... Read More

Have You Said Thank You Today?

'When it comes to life the critical thing is whether... Read More

Choosing Your Vision

There is a new television show, called Blind Justice that... Read More

Trust the ?System? ? It Works!

The "System" ? the overall structure and organization of this... Read More

Perseverance As A Virtue

"Through perseverance many people win success out of what seemed... Read More

Motivation By Gratitude

Whenever you feel lethargic and depressed by your situation in... Read More

It Is Up To You

One of the first things successful people realize is the... Read More

A Burning Desire

"Mommy, he's doing it again." I yelled as I came... Read More

Listening Skills

Listen to win SalesVery few people are good listeners. In... Read More

Turn your Dreaming into Doing

The first of January and September, as well as our... Read More

Break Free

I received an email the other day from one of... Read More

Discover Your Purpose In Life

Everyone has a life purpose; a unique and special something... Read More

Five Ways to Expand Your Comfort Zone

Expanding your comfort zone isn't quite the same as building... Read More

Your Growing Edge

You've probably heard the term "leading edge" used to refer... Read More

The Greatest Secret To Producing Real SOLID Excellence!

One fact stubbornly stays true: while everyone desires to succeed,... Read More

7 Steps to a New Life Overseas

Research shows that at any one time more than half... Read More

Why Idle Hands Create Stagnation in Our Lives

You've probably heard the phrase, "Idle hands are the devil's... Read More

Its Only Too Late If You Dont Start Living Now

Remember when summer seemed to last forever? My mother use... Read More

The Default Setting

In the coaching relationships I have with our clients, the... Read More

5 Keys to Maintaining Personal Change

I look out my window at daybreak as the sunrise... Read More

Ten Sure-Fire Rules To Put Old On Hold By At Least 25 Years

Would you like to feel and function like age 40... Read More

Casting Vision

One of my greatest loves as a kid was fishing.... Read More

The Art Of Using Effectively A Motivational Quote

--Choose a motivational quote related to your goal. Don't have... Read More

The Top Five Great Reasons to Delay Pursuing Your Dream

1.2.3.4.5.Well, to be frank, there are no great reasons to... Read More